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 BEDROOM INSECURITY
Though not all women understand or acknowledge it, fucking is an exchange of power.
 Though not all women understand or acknowledge it, fucking is an exchange of power.
For some, this power exchange can bring with it many not-so-great emotions such as inadequacy, embarrassment, jealousy, performance anxiety and of course sexual insecurity.
Any of the above can be present at any time; however, sometimes sexual insecurity can set in during the course of a relationship, particularly once the honeymoon is over.
Perhaps, for whatever reason, the lover who felt powerful during a sexual exchange starts to become insecure and unable to participate with the confidence they previously seemed to have.
This is more common than you may think, and there can be many underlining reasons to explain this shift.
Yes, I know what you're thinking. The person was just all front, and in some cases that’s true, but for others it's more complex.
It is important to try and understand what is going on if you find yourself in this situation, even talk to a counsellor.
Unfortunately though, what often happens is that the woman experiencing this will thereafter rarely initiate sex. She feels she is unable to meet her lover’s sexual needs and becomes overwhelmed by a range of associated emotions.
And without help, her partner will probably wear the brunt of the blame.
Feeling empowered comes from within. It is a personal responsibility to acquire it. No-one can take it from you if you are already standing solid in your own power.
Sex and intimacy make us feel good and we should immerse ourselves in pleasure.
Getting confident in the bedroom and staying that way will only add to your life instead of allowing anxiety, insecurity and jealousy to take away from what you and your lover share.
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